順得哥情失嫂意 (seon6 dak1 go1 cing4 sat1 sou2 yi3) — complying with the wishes of one's elder brother and one would offend his wife in Cantonese
seonˍ₆順dakˉ¹得goˉ¹哥cingˎ₄情satˉ¹失souˊ²嫂yi˗₃意简 顺得哥情失嫂意
Mandarin Pinyin: shun4 de5 ge1 qing2 shi1 sao3 yi4
Meaning of 順得哥情失嫂意
nouncomplying with the wishes of one's elder brother and one would offend his wife
nounhard to please everybody; please one and you'll offend the other
noun左右做人難