若即若離 (joek6 zik1 joek6 lei4) — to be at arm's length with sb, neither close or distant; to maintain a lukewarm relationship with sb. | Also 不即不離 in Cantonese
joekˍ₆若zikˉ¹即joekˍ₆若leiˎ₄離简 若即若离
Mandarin Pinyin: ruo4 ji2 ruo4 li2
Meaning of 若即若離
nounto be at arm's length with sb, neither close or distant; to maintain a lukewarm relationship with sb. | Also 不即不離