手指拗出唔拗入 (sau2 zi2 aau2 ceot1 m4 aau2 jap6) — help outsiders and not side your own in Cantonese
sauˊ²手ziˊ²指aauˊ²拗ceotˉ¹出mˎ₄唔aauˊ²拗japˍ₆入Mandarin Pinyin: shou3 zhi3 ao3 chu1 wu2 ao3 ru4
Meaning of 手指拗出唔拗入
nounhelp outsiders and not side your own
nounan idiom describing a person who doesn't side or support those who are close to him/her (especially family members and best friends) and only helps outsiders